I am curious what the preferred venues to play are for other guys. For me I always feel the need to be in control. I will only play at my home, hotel room and another friends house. I know there are quite a few guys that play at bookstores or out in the open often at forest preserves. There are also those that play at swinger clubs where bi men are welcome. The craziest experience I have ever had was in a hotel room where there were 3 men and 1 woman including myself. That was one of the hotest experiences I have ever had. We played safely of course but the sex was intense.
I have never set foot in a bookstore, the scene seems too risky for my taste. I know that it would be simple to walk in drop a load and move on but not knowing the history of the other person seems too risky. That is probably all in my head but I feel I cannot be completely careless where I poke my dick in. It may bite me big time. I know I don't know what goes on with the people I meet they may be doing the bookstores and having riskier encounters than I am. My biggest fear is catching a disease I will not be able to explain how I received it and even worse one that I infect my wife that cannot be cured. So let me know what you guys do and find completely acceptable I really would like some feedback.